lmao, yea, "You don't act or dress gay" makes no sense to me either. There's no one way a gay person dresses or acts, BECAUSE GAY PEOPLE AREN'T ALL THE SAME. LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. Jeez.

Don't worry, I get you. If people want to be open and talk freely about their sexuality that's perfectly fine and normal, but for it to not be something you mention to anyone other than a potential partner or close friends, that's also fine. People need to stop thinking that their way is the only way.